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  • In this blog, Georgiev tries to show what happens when love, neediness, and envy start wearing each other’s clothes. We all have the freedom to fire our emotional bullets, but none of us get to decide where they land—or what comes back. He thought he understood the difference between needing someone and loving them. Then,…

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  • What if love has less to do with how we feel and more to do with what we are willing to sacrifice? Through Homeric epics, Ivo translates something we keep forgetting: heroes are rarely the people who get everything right. They are the ones who, often far too late, recognise what matters and act on…

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  • Georgiev dissects a failed date and the chronic self-sabotage that follows him through every connection he attempts. Drawing parallels to Punch-Drunk Love’s Barry Egan, he confesses to years of lying—small lies that shaped his mouth until even truth hesitated on the way out. The essay spirals through dating, loneliness, and the exhausting performance of being…

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  • In “DABOISASTRGLEDT,” Ivaniel Georgiev reflects on themes of commitment and self-identity while navigating his college life. He discusses the irony of avoiding relationships despite his desire for connection and the struggle to maintain personal effort. He openly shares insecurities about sustaining actions, particularly in romantic contexts, and draws parallels between nurturing plants and relationships. Georgiev…

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  • Ivaniel Georgiev reflects on his diverse family background as he turns 25, using this age milestone to explore complex relational dynamics. He outlines different family types, acknowledging both inherited traits and chosen connections. His family history reveals struggles, resilience, and the nuances of love and detachment, particularly in the context of generational wounds. Emphasizing self-awareness,…

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  • Scent of a Woman…

    DABOISASTRGLEDT – by Ivaniel “Ivo” Georgiev DABOIS are back. New edition—same struggling style, though this time with a twist. Today, I’m feeling more romantic than usual. But don’t worry—this isn’t a sob story, nor my usual witty cynicism. My goal is to entertain you—through insight, of course, some humour, and ½ cup of wisdom. Now,…

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  • In the blog “DABOISASTRGLEDT,” Ivaniel Georgiev explores the concept of control amidst life’s struggles and complexities. Drawing from a friend’s introspection, he delves into thoughts, emotions, reactions, choices, and actions as the core elements that shape our lives. Georgiev emphasizes the importance of awareness and self-reflection to recognize patterns in relationships and personal struggles. He…

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  • In “Imagine Craving Absolutely Nothing from the World,” Ivaniel Georgiev explores the radical idea of emotional detachment—not as numbness, but as liberation. With poetic introspection, he questions the constant hunger for validation, love, and success. What if peace lies in wanting nothing? Georgiev’s reflections challenge readers to rethink desire, ambition, and the self. It’s a…

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  • In “You Are What You Do (or Don’t)—But You May Be Even More,” Ivaniel Georgiev wrestles with the limits of identity. With philosophical nuance and emotional candor, he questions whether actions alone define us, or if something deeper—intention, potential, or essence—might matter more. Georgiev’s reflections blur the line between being and becoming, inviting readers to…

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  • In “The Modern Dating Game: A Brutal Honest Analysis,” Georgiev strips away the romantic gloss to expose the raw mechanics of contemporary relationships. With biting wit and psychological insight, he explores how apps, expectations, and emotional baggage collide in a landscape of performative connection. Georgiev doesn’t just critique—he confesses, revealing his own missteps and disillusionments.…

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